Russian missile leaves widow with just one memento of late husband

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Vera Kosolopenko, reacts outside her destroyed house, after it was hit during Russian bombing, amid Russia’s attack on Ukraine, in the village of Bezruky, Derhachi district, Kharkiv region, Ukraine, May 14, 2022.

BEZRUKY, Ukraine (Reuters) – The Russian missile turned Vera Kosolopenko’s small home into a fiery pyre that consumed the bible and all of the other precious mementoes that she cherished of her late husband.

“I have lost everything that connected me to him,” she wept on Saturday as she stood by the smoldering remains of the house destroyed by the missile a day earlier. “All I have left is the portrait engraved on his gravestone.”

The diminutive 67-year-old widow is lucky to be alive.

She and two friends were drinking tea inside the house when the missile slammed into the roof, she said. “It was so quick. It was terrifying.”

Villagers said the missile was one of five that in quick succession struck the leafy hamlet that sits 26 km north of Kharkiv, close to where Ukrainian troops have driven Russian forces that tried to overrun the country’s second-largest city in Moscow’s Feb. 24 invasion.

The Russians did not occupy Bezruky, located only 17 km from the frontier. But they occasionally sent vehicles to patrol its narrow dirt tracks before their forces were pushed back by the nearly two-week-old Ukrainian counteroffensive, villagers said.

Since the war began, Bezruky has endured near-constant shellfire that has destroyed or damaged many of the homes. Rocket and bomb craters dot its lanes and the rutted gravel road leading to the village, an occasional trench and bunker visible in the trees lining its verges.

The foes were fighting artillery duels during the visit by Reuters. Loud, throaty booms came from nearby Ukrainian guns; muffled thuds marked distant Russian positions that sent several south-bound shells whistling directly overhead.

Countless Ukrainian villages like Bezruky have been shattered by the invasion that nuclear-armed Russia claims it was forced to launch to eradicate a threat that Ukraine posed to its security.

Ukraine and its foreign supporters say thousands of people have died in the Kremlin’s unprovoked war of aggression that has uprooted millions of others and left cities and towns in ruins.


Kosolopenko, a mother of five who hails from the northeastern city of Sumy, moved in 2001 with her late husband to the village, where he had relatives. He died two years ago.

There has been no power or bottled gas since the war erupted. She has mostly lived on humanitarian aid and eggs provided by a few chickens, and cooked in her backyard over a fire lit under a makeshift oven of several bricks and metal sheets.

The missile, Kosolopenko said, fell at 9 a.m. on Friday. It set her roof ablaze in a shower of flaming shards that ignited a wooden storeroom in her narrow backyard.

“We heard a huge explosion when it landed and all of the windows shattered,” she remembered.

As a second rocket struck nearby, she and her friends fled into a brick-lined cellar dug on the side of her house.

Kosolopenko “took her tea with her, and I grabbed a plastic bag with a book in it, and we ran to the cellar” said her friend, Alla Bazarnaya, 40, of Kharkiv.

Bazarnaya said she moved in with Kosolopenko in January after the pair became friends in a hospital in Kharkiv where she was being treated for a stroke and her host for high blood pressure.

“The most important thing is that I felt I was spared by God and that we had to get away into the cellar,” she said.

The roof, the second floor and the storeroom were blazing when the pair emerged.

Kosolopenko said she called a nearby fire department as neighbors wielding water-filled buckets and other containers rushed to her home. They were unable to extinguish the flames.

“The firefighters answered that there was shelling, and they could not get here,” she said. “They did not get here until six hours later. If they had made it earlier, they could have put out the fire on the second floor and saved the ground floor.”

The flames reduced her house and storeroom to fire-blackened shells, leaving the backyard carpeted with charred rubble and ash. Only cinderblock and brick walls were left standing.

Kosolopenko said she lost everything, including the family photographs and the bible that had belonged to her husband’s father.

“This is so painful for me,” she wept. “I don’t know how I will rebuild this house. I loved this place.”